I don't think that dating your ex brother in law would be so weird or in bad taste, after all. Instead of thinking about him, there are a number of things you can do to trick your mind into forgetting about him for a while, so that you can relax and stop obsessing. Joining her wife and doubling the pleasure. This is not a gender-specific problem, but I will use the traditional gendered situation as an example.
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